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How Does a Narcissist Reacts when He is left?

How does a narcissist react when he’s left behind

If you are wondering how a narcissist reacts when he is left, then the answer is in many different ways and it is important to have clear ideas before embarking on this path. We have already talked about how to leave a narcissist, dealing with the main reactions he might have, but in this article we will go even more specifically.

A narcissist when he’s left feels lonely

We will not go into the various types of narcissism and all its nuances because only a psychologist can give a judgment about the person in question. But in principle, we can confirm that the narcissist often feels alone and abandoned.

The fact of being told that the prey he has chosen wants to leave, will awaken in him all those wounds that, since childhood have led him to live the life with which he currently lives. A narcissist, at the end of the day, has the soul of a wounded child who suffers a lot.

Unfortunately, because of her disorder, he doesn’t realize that he needs help and even if you tell him openly he may not take you seriously or even get angry. Once you break up with him, you’ll know he’s gonna start victimizing.

Victimhood is a very common phenomenon in Covert narcissism. Here he’ll tell you that everyone leaves him, that no one loves him and that he thought you were the right person for him. In this case, the guilt you may have will be well-marked, but you must be strong. He’s not lying to you in part, because really people after they meet him run away but he doesn’t realize that he’s the one who puts people in a position to leave.

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Don’t let this kind of attitude manipulate you, be strong and move on!

A narcissist gets angry when left behind

Anger is another very common attitude and in some cases can also become dangerous. To prevent him from unleashing all this anger on you, you should tell him, calmly and calmly, all the reasons that made you want to leave him.

But there is more…

While you’re telling him, you never have to blame him. It is known that it is his fault anyway, but if anything he perceives such a thing, the situation and becoming much more difficult to manage. Be careful and rather take the blame for the situation, make he feels important again and only then will you convince him to leave you.

Besides, as soon as you tell him, don’t give him time to think. If you live together, take your things and go away, if you don’t live together, use no contact and don’t let anyone see you anymore. And again, if you have children informed beforehand with a good lawyer to figure out what is the best way to act.

Never leave anything to chance, prepare everything in detail from the beginning and only after act.

Might Also Have Persistent Behavior

There are narcissists who don’t take it very well, and in case you decide to leave them, you could easily find them in your home, at work or receive calls at any time of day or night. This is a stalking!

If unfortunately you become a victim of such behavior, do not hesitate for a moment to entrust you to law enforcement. In addition, it blocks his contacts and also in this case inform about the right method to use to get rid of them.

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How Does a Narcissist React When He Is Left? Sometimes He Ignores

There will be times when you’re going to get a headache from wondering how a narcissist reacts when he’s dumped, and what you’ve read above is one of the most common cases. But as in all situations, even in this one there is the exception. We’re talking about the kind of Narcissus that, while not giving importance to the victim and not showing in any way the loss of pride, he’ll simply ignore you.

He’ll do it to see if you’ll come back or if you’ll look for him again. Of course not, don’t take it personally if he ignores you and thinks of it as a fluke. From this moment on, in fact, you can finally rebuild your life and live it in a completely different way.

Probably, when he doesn’t see you coming back, he’ll come back. He has to find the door closed, not give him hope that something can be solved, or else you’ll fall back into the same trap. In these situations there is tenacity and willpower, but the result is guaranteed.

Friends, family or your psychologist could make a difference in this journey. Let me help you and ask if you need, they may help you find your way back to the right path in case you feel disoriented by the various manipulations of your Narcissus.


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